He would even insinuate things to come in our relationship. I definitely dont want to just give up and move on because I feel as if our relationship is very unfinished. When im not feeling it i will communicate it, but not all men do that. Sorry I had to be so blunt but during heartbreak we seem to be deaf, blind and somewhat insane. Some guys catch on that you want something more serious, so they disappear. What? Men will continue to be themselves. Address the issue with him. At first, this seemed romantic because it meant that he was thinking of you. He started all of this from the beginning, Wanting to date me and claiming he was really into me. its impressive to see to how many people this happened; at least I am not alone. I am in this crappy situation also, I have been dealing with this guy for a looong time. Update: before he left he send message that he was sorry that we didnt had chance to spend more time before his vacation. I know i was happy with what he sent me. We hit it off and I live on Maui another island than him. I get the attention seeker in you Ryan, Hi Suzanne, What the hell. He chooses to keep you on the side and prevents you from finding someone wholl treat you the way you deserve to be treated. 13. Then the third week he asked me to come to his place and I would stay the night (he lived about 35 min away) because we would have wine and get to know each other. I have started dating again and these are the exact things I have been dealing with. The truth, as I would have told it, would have caused her extreme emotional distress. Theres always an option. but her conversation skills were HORRIBLE. Anyway, a definite connection, total talk of things we would do in the futurethe last time he contacted me was the 17th. You still truly dont KNOW them. Even 10 years ago. He is also very confident and gentlemanly and doesnt seem like the type of guy who would just ignore someone to get rid of them. Mommy told them they never do anything wrong and, as a result, they do not accept consequences for their actions; Greatest guy, very sweet and very respectable. Now hes doing the disappearing act on me & he has so many of my DVDs, how do I ask for them back? Maybe you should wonder why? i just thought it would be great experience to go out of my country and visit him. Wont text me back. If a guy wants to be with you, he will show you he wants to be with you. This texting business is so juvenile. Ashley no matter how you slice it, not responding to you for an entire week was not cool on his part. Seriously. Image via Unsplash. Why cant he just be a man and break up with me to my face?? Men are highly quantitate beings indeed brutal and they have no problem ghosting someone they barely know. Its not fair, youre being selfish. I know many men that constantly try to improve themselves to find an amazing woman. I just dont get guys who will talk to you then put you on ignore. After a period of time I figured out what he was doing, I felt very disrespected and less of a lady because of it. I wouldve never gone along with that had I not thought this dude was something else. I send a couple of text messages, saying I cant wait to see you, etc. He is very reserved and talks very little and this attitude irritates me. But what is with the disappearing act.. He was leaving the next day, so I met up with him and asked him if he wanted to spend time with his friend instead but he said no and we went for brunch and then a walk and had a good time. @_@ Im not obsessed with the guy, its more of an obsession with wanting to know why. Like Oprah says, The first time someone shows you who they are, believe them. My bet is that this isnt the first time hes been flighty towards you. Still sucks, but its not ghosting. I accused him again that there is something wrong. Sometimes youre dealt a crappy hand, despite your best efforts. During this talking he has said he has missed me and how he liked when I would be sleeping next to him because it would relax him. These are about the only good signs he has giving me along with being flirty but more recently when talking he takes forever to reply and just doesnt finish the conversation. He said I didnt do anything wrong he just had a bad day. I texted him a few times and never got a response. I was just hoping for a short response, even if he says that he loses interest in me itll hurt but atleast I dont have to wait for him anymore. He got me to see myself more positively. Maybe we were seeing the same guy? Coming back to you isnt an option and you wont allow him to do that. Why havent you reached back? On monday of the next week he texted me saying he wanted to see me which I answered that I did so. Hah . If you arent interested tell me.. Do not disappear. When he reached out again to me I told him that I did not think we should go out again because I didnt feel we were a match/were compatible. You can reach out to someone with a professional perspective on what youre dealing with! Guys have a sixth sense concerning what they can get away with, and you have a past history of guys who apparently think they can take you or leave youand youll stick around waiting for them to figure it out. Since the very first day, I already knew its gonna be hard since hes almost 20 years older than me. Its up to YOU to protect YOU, though. Every other advanced monkey on this planet is the same way, and dont let them tell you otherwise. I will be trying to be busy and stop checking up his social network and enjoy my life as much as possible. I cant believe I was so So why he waited that much! One month ago, I thought I was in a relationship with a man I would someday call my husband. I checked the Instagram page of girl and it was now private. We saw each other 8 times over those 3 weeks. It's not over yet. ), This exact same thing just happened to me to! It really is a coward move. I feel as if I could love him if we had a longer time together but I do very much care for him. You are least know why. Going down this path because something is better than nothing can actually make your heartbreak so much more intense, so bad that it causes some women depression. I know the smartest move would be to accept the fact that he pulled a Houdini act and move on but it's easier said than done.. Like where is this going conversation? I am finally sleeping and feeling rested allows me to make better decisions, I know I didnt do anything wrong, so its his loss. Neither did he. lets just take it as a good lesson and move on. At first i thought he was mad for not leaving work, but i called him asking him to tell me if he was ok. I agree with Jujubean, at least he told you now rather than later. And yes they were recently divorced, but separated for almost 2 years. I laugh when he texts me by mistake my name and his bestfriends name are listed next to each other to see if he gets a quick response from me. He wanted to lone wolf it. Ive hooked up with what I thought was a sweet, considerate young man by getting to know him though texting. . I dont know why it would matter, but I want to know why he isnt into me now. I told him how I felt when he gave me the silent treatment, he seemed to listen as it did stop. You strike me as the type of person who approaches life from the perspective of what things ought to be or what they should be based on your personal feelings. My question is knowing the background what should I do? I wanted to know if I was worth it to him so I decided to give him a few days to figure out What he wanted. I could see he has read messages but didnt bothered to respond. So well i kept telling myself this man is just too good to be true. Paid for everything (not that i expected it), sweet, texted back all the time, called frequently and then 2 weeks ago he asked me to meet his childhood friends so the week after he said that they were in town. Be grateful it wasnt any longer- you need people in your life who communicate out of honesty, not out of fear. If I did that, he would never leave me. I know its really hard, but please dont waste any more time on this boy. after reading your articles everything started making sense to me that he lost interest and i realized he doesnt like me that much anymore. We used to text at least once daily, now it has been 6 days. This needs to change. He never deserved you and he finally showed you that when he decided to disappear from your life without any explanation. He brought me flowers, made reservations at s very fancy restaurant and took me Interpersonal attraction, which is the strength of emotions of love and how we feel for the other person, has dimmed because of a lack of similarity. Well, its time I stop playing myself for a fool for this guy. Your honesty could save us a lot of time and energy so it would be great if you could just tell me whats going on. how pathetic someone is to do this to another human being, not once, but three times! He doest call me anymore, he left me, and disappear my boyfriend did not say Lesson learned. The guy Ive been seeing told me he could see us being happily married and that he hoped that our kids had my eye colour. He wont be there anymore. I know I jumped the gun should have just let him disappear in peace but for my own peace of mind two days later I said ok Ill take the hint. I know his cousin, so I assume shed tell me if he was in an accident or something. So this has just happened to me and has got to be one of the worst feelings in the world. I bet if you didnt mind home wrecking than he would have left his family for you. No expectations. First date went great, we stayed up until 3 am talking. And yeah, thats disappointing but its not the be all, end all. He also started calling and over the phone we talked for hours on end. Exactly how I feel too. At the start of the dating men can go into the 'wooing' phase fast. He had to go under. Or maybe it came suddenly, out of the blue. Thrill of the chase. He may have told you differently; who knows, maybe he even thought he would continue the relationship once vacation was over. Each connection has its development speed, and he might have chosen to foster the one that progressed faster. He always used to tell me that I am the entire package, etc. It's really not about you at all. Sometimes, it can be just testing your interest level, if they have reason to believe you may not be that into them. Simple as that. Its the title of this website. We had a really intense situation where we were in constant communication for months so him just disappearing is hard for me, but its even harder to know thats its because of his family or because hes sad, stressed and dealing with something as hard as a sick parent. (of course he was ghosting every time that happened). I have a pretty large circle and i dont know ANYWAY who would do something like that without some kind of serious instigation on the others part (ie you borrowed his car and wrecked it or something lol). We made it work. Now, I understand women are getting more and more frustrated with this and I think men are doing this more and more as actually are women. When he left, he told me how much he liked me and that we absolutely had to meet again if we both have some free time etc We kept texting for the next 2 weeks and I started to talk about another meeting, but I had a very full work schedule, and he said something like, no need to hurry, I wont run away from here I didnt get the hint. Because I want to guard my heart as well. I dont care about the collateral damage or that she may feel it was mean. Wait For Him At The Moment. He agreed and said he should of called or answered my phone calls. unfortunately theres a lot of men out there who cant man up. I was trying to do things in the right way and not rush to a relationship or label it a relationship, mistakes women often do, and I have done before years ago. Either way, I dont think this is much of a loss to you. unfortunately this sounds like he decided the physical vibe/attraction just wasnt there. This isnt about my self worth and I find it quite offensive when people say that. So, apparently, you get this said to you a lot. I deleted his number and ended things in my mind. at the end, I am away from heartache. 2: he is the one who said hed be back to help me, so it is his responsibility to be contacting me. I need to know so I can heal and find someone who deserves me truly. Turns out he has started to date someone else. We are long distance and its been a few months and weve seen eachother many times. Havent tried contacting him since. I was not texting that much, scared of disturbing him.. he was the one texting. To tel Could mean a few things. Almost two months later we went on our second date and since then has not contacted me again. I wasnt sure that we would ever meet at some point. And if they refuse to give us what we deserve anyway, we can provide a closure by ourselves like I did. This is THE BEST reply Ive ever seen so far of anything Ive ever read or researched on this subject. We hit it off like I have never with anyone before. We never fought over anything. You dont have to be insulting to tell them why. All I can say is dont give your heart any more than you already have. WTF with him?? He doesn't really want a real relationship. it may not be you it may be your views, what you talk about and maybe your politics. He emails, I reply more in depth this time, we keep emailing, every few days. Although this happened in March it still brings fresh wounds. We are both in our early 30s. Havent heard from him since and Im getting over him, but it definitely was a blow. I wanna give a guys perspective here but only my own or a certain type of male perspective from the time I was guilty of doing this. Had a good weekend? (Can you believe this asshole?) We talked for almost two weeks before agreeing to meet up. I know this day must be hard for you(my dad passed). Hes also told me work is all his life consists of and he is a pain when it comes to relationships (due to past experiences that have messed him up). This week has been horrible. Lots of love <3, Im 24, and i bumped into this guy who is 2 years younger from my high school last November. I was also pretty angry too, as I felt like he le, Hey! That you do get through it. If a guy disappears then okay, be glad you can keep searching for a better one;) theres so many good looking and interesting guys to meet! I know towards the end of winter he was having a hard time financially and it really bothered him as far as having the means to take me out and buy me things, which I never once asked for anything and I never got upset if we never went out, I was happy just having dinner at my place or mine and watching movies. Life certainly isnt. [repeat], Dont want you to be sad girl Ive decided to not contact him anymore, let him come to me. I know I am just a mess when it comes to these things as anyone else but the one thing I have learned is just because a guy is unsure or seems unsure of his own feelings doesnt give him the right to mess with yours. The third time was because he did something stupid while drunk about 9 months later. Come up for air, take a couple of deep breaths, give him a minute to think about what you just said if hes a slow responder dont jump around the place running circles around him. If a man does this, he is a total coward. Heres whats wrong with the picture. And thats too bad, because this is one of the few places where women can express themselves and feel supported. people take it personally and think if only i can show him what a great person i am!!! I love you Sabrina! He sstopped replying me and disappeared.. on to bigger and better! First I want to say that I am not a person who dates. Once again he opened up my snap but never responded to my first or second text. So whats with the stickers? He said I thought I gave you the green light to reach out to me. Sorry to hear this happened to you. It makes me dread what liberal society has turned men into. Guys who are interested text back. In his city ughhhh. Goodness. Ive always been so into him (well, ya, obviously I was into him since I was dating him.) Did you ever hear back? The second, third, and fourth dates all went well also. I just very recently had a guy do the fade out on mein fact he is still doing it and it hurts like hellWe chat and he is very loving and then disappears on me for 3 to 4 days. Im not defending him in any way. Since, I have went back on FB/LinkedIn and posted a pic of myself and it was almost liberating. Hes well aware of his behavior. Its disgusting but karma has a way of going around. I was miserable and baffled. It was lovely meeting you, and I wish you the best! I try to say its important. No phone calls. You dont choose me, I choose you.NEXT!! But they can see Ive no baggage and am just interested in companionship, conversation, and integrity, not necessarily anything heavy, no games. Dont text them. It sucks. Could someone please help explain to me what could possibly be going on??! Slowly but surely I will start to feel 100% happy again where I dont think about him anymore. Please help me out! He got me from a bar once, but he was safe at his oen house he could have waited. If someone disappears, theyre not into you. You may even be able to drive your Aries man crazy with the desire to pursue you further! Its very painful to not know why. Then we decided to start dating. I was busy one weekendfinally, he surprised me and told me that he is here and I went to see himkinda insecure tjah maybe he wont like me in person and I saw him and really liked him. I told him i need sometimes to think, he replied by saying that he likes me but he doesnt want anything serious because he just want to have fun but not in my expenses. big halloween party at my friends place after dinner holding conversation becoming a little more difficult. Then I found out that he removed me from his friends list and also blocked me in his other account. Then, what happened? Me too, I said I wouldnt take him back, but somehow I get caught up with his charm and hilarious personality only for him to fade out. Bcs if he love me he will make me important, and keep in touch with me no matter how busy he is, no matter how much he travels and no matter how much he has going on in his life. Its really not about you at all. Think Aloud is a destination where youll find stories about every step you, as a woman, take. I dont know what to do. You shouldn't sweep things under the rug. I asked him if he wanted to get out of the relation and he just said no! Chalk it up to one good date and keep fishing. We chatted for a month or two and then I went to his house and we had sex. Good looks, Great job and a very Confident attitude. With me I got kiss and a see you in the morning then he vanished. Day Two: You decide to reach out to him. He probably thinks its a smart strategy, but in my opinion it was very unfair and driving me crazy. Ive done this and I get how its confusing but we dont know what people have going on. Ive got you on this! I just say its all a cop out. He walked me home and we hugged on my doorstep. Absolutely, you do! Unhealthy. I chicken out of meeting him a few times, he says he knows Im scared to see him again. Yet he would answer me later in the day or evening. I went numb when he said yes. After I came back to Europe he kept telling me how he loved me and also about some future plans, kids I also told him I love him and i meant it.. he suggested i should visit him so we will not stay long apart and that he will pay me half of the ticket which was about 1000 dollars as well. Me anymore? What is a certainty is that you can always keep being plugged into your own life, at all times. I finally had to block him when he called me twice between 5 am and 6 am. He broke it off after some conflict with others at club. Does he ask you what you want or need in any life area? I think its not an uncommon way for guys to end relationships, at all. Hi Lindsay, you only reply what I send, is that the way you think of me?.. we never have same schedule for going out, but you have time to go dinner with your friend I feel sorry for him, but I dont want to settle for less. I have been patient with him but to me it sounded like an excuse. Ask him a question pretending as if nothing happened; Start a conversation casually without addressing his behavior yet; He texts and calls only when he needs favors; Never asks about what or how youre doing. since then he never replied again its awhile now hes too busy to text me back but go on facebook all the time ok. like he wasnt interested in me cant just tell me point blank instead of leaving me hanging #douchebag. My communication outside of texting is great with them. He doesnt reply my texts or skype messages (I eventually deleted and blocked him). Men may be brutal, but most arent sadists. Kissed good bye and then he was really bad at answering my texts after that. his answer was suddenly emotionless and official and he told me he will not be at home that time. I need to get this guy to ask me out now and see if there is anything between us otherwise this needs to stop. I said ok. And that hurts that he couldnt even via email thank me back for the beautiful moments weve shared. If theyre interest in you is flattery over the fact that you are interested in them, they are shallow, insecure, and petty. But I guess that wasnt what he needed at the time. He told me he cared about me. This texting scene is absolutely ridiculous. I had sent him one more after that and he didnt answer for days. But I was beside myself when I fell in Like with him. Texting such a man would boost his ego and will likely show repetitive behavior whenever he needs self-validation. I learned a lot about him and I dicovered he was a a much more interesting person than he seemed previously. Its been weeks since then and Ive not heard from him neither have I reached out. Im 30 and neve experienced this. Expecting that for yourself will raise the bar, it just works. I met a guy on my holiday abroad and although it was supposed to be just a little fun we fell in love. 10 years of texting and chatting can be dispelled after 10 seconds with a person if you just dont feel that personal connection face to face; and its really about more than just attraction, people have a way about them, and it might just make you uncomfortable, like someones energy is just not at all what you expected. Do you live in London? The easiest option is to take a step back and pull away until the situation calms down. And, after all of this time that has gone by I feel like Ive done really well in not contacting him. Have them call you. He sent me a msg weeks later thanking me for the follow. Later that day I get the bright idea to face time him on my lunchbreak and he doesnt answer.So silly me I text him to tell him I just called, this asshole reads the text and never replies. I confronted mine by showing up at his house and told him how I felt about his behavior. I kept pulling back but he kept stepping up and making the grand gestures he flew back on the spur of the moment to surprise me. Anyway, its my second time being ghosted. She is not a bad person but sadly she is not normal due to her borderline personality disorder. second date rolls around. am really confused please help. ! BUT the giant problem with that statement is that it assumes you dont deserve someone who REALLY IS into you! She may take that as a lesson moving forward in her interactions with people; to actually listen. I figured things have been hot and heavy he just needs his space. No, he never spends time with me. Or do I just wait to see if he asks for it back? Makes me think about why his ex cheated on him maybe because he has a hard time getting it up haha. id like to thank everybody for sharing. Its really that simple. This went on for a month. Ive better things to do than wait around or get hung up waiting for texts. But thats not what this guy is going to get. Then he asked when we will see and I answered Not today and I finished texting me back Okei, you tell me when. so now what? its one thing to fade after a first date- ive done that and i have it done to me many many times. He was perfectly chatty, maybe a little staid? They think I am at least 10 years younger because I dont look my age. How can you say you love me and then just cut me off like I am nothing?! No wonder so many men cheat and leave most of you. He tried visiting me a couple of times. That friday, he texted me, it w, so he texted me to know how was my day. Well things were never the same after. ghosting, is just unbearable. Do not listen to his words. we finnaly only see each other 3 times in 10 months. That would be honest without being hurtful, Broken hearted He seemed very nice, kind of shy. I also started moving but after a month I really missed him so I though I will give one more try and I emailed him just a simple saying sorry and that I love him. I so desperately wanted closure, or more, and told him so. He deleted a load of girls without me requesting it. He said that he was just too busy about his work and he wants us to stay in touch while hes away. With this it makes me feel its not even worth trying to date. First date went flawlessly (probably the best first date ever and I do go on a lot of dates). And 2 next months we going to have a vacation. Some specialists take silent treatment to be an emotional abuse. When I was heading back to the car park with him, the parking station was closed. The non-responses and blatant unfriending of you then asking for time = hes being a coward to you. He is too selfish for that. If you don't have good memories of the relationship or . I really have no idea too. I guess I have to take my pick because hell never admit any of these reasons. You tell your family and about this great guy. I cant get him out of my mind. Don't kid yourself or make excuses for the guy. In return, they leave us brokenhearted and sobbing in pain. Thank you for your perspective. I decided to ask if he wanted to hang out. oh go marry a hunchback then and be happy yeah right BYE, Ashley, you are right. Be kind always. That contact was what made me smile everyday, gave me something to look forward to. Well, there actually is and youre about to find out what. I realize it was getting to the point where decisions were going to have to be talked about, but I wasnt pushing for that. And the annoying thing is, he isnt even the type of guy I would normally go for. Theres always someone else .. Dont stress it. Then after that conversation he just vanished. I dont know what the reason but do know his hurts me and shows what type of man he really is. If he wanted to reach out to you, he would have. He liked me but he mainly used me as ego booster. And all of sudden last mounth he texted me after 3 years of total silence! Ive been seeing a lovely boy for about a month, nothing too serious or official but we get along really well and are comfortable in each others company. I later saw on his Facebook that he went on a trip to Canada at the same time that I was supposed to have been with him in France. I didnt want to involve my family or friends just as yet. if they dont treat us how we deserved to be treated then good luckif we dont see each other again then Ill see you in heaventhats if you get there! If the silence precedes, you know better. I figured if they werent interested theyd back off. 1: because he is married and Ive never initiated contact, he always did. If he texts after pulling away, see what he has to say for a few texts. We hit it off, both were somewhat nervous. Then last June he finally got up the nerve and asked me out to dinner. Do you care about a stranger? I have my girlfriends and family who dont mind when I need to unload the bricks. 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